How would you describe yourself to someone who can’t see you?
We are constantly being reminded of contrasts. We have Right v. Left v. Centralist. We recognize not only homosexuality and heterosexuality, but bisexuality, trans identity, homophobia, lesbian, gay, etc. We hear debates about Latino or Latinx. Is it illegal alien or undocumented immigrant?
In actuality, these differences are a result of the beauty of our United States of America. It also creates challenges when there is so much diversity even inside each diverse community.
If I say I am a Christian, suddenly what I say or do carries preconceived connotations in your mind and no matter what I say, what you hear is colored by what you think you already know about me. Your present perception of what that means can also influence how you see me so that you don’t really see me for who I am.
We all just want to be seen and understood and valued. To really connect, we need to embrace each other’s unique qualities and interests. When we do, understanding flourishes, respect grows, and fear melts away—even when we don’t see eye to eye.
People are 80% more likely to listen to someone they disagree with if they feel seen and heard. We can fight strongly for our differences without destroying the other person when we really see them.
Categories: Understanding
Douglas Knight
I have the rich life full of a sinner wounded by misunderstanding and punishment but blessed by mercy and forgiveness.
Knight Writer 